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Post by fleababy on Jun 17, 2005 18:23:22 GMT -5
Although new to the dating scene I am positive and hopeful. The best thing about it is that I am comfortable enough with myself to spend a Friday night alone at home chillin or Borders or at a comedy show or Poetry Night. Company is fine too -in its own time...
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Post by Superstud on Jun 23, 2005 1:47:55 GMT -5
I'm having a fresh shipment of sane working femmes trucked in for pride. That should solve all the problems.
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Post by Superstud on Jun 23, 2005 1:52:15 GMT -5
I hear SPICE is having a rap session on 7/1 about the downlow and womyn...This should be quite spicy. I can't wait to hear what the ladies have to say about this!!!!!
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GAM
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What up doe?
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Post by GAM on Jun 23, 2005 1:59:26 GMT -5
I'll be there. Cheating is universal. Boys arent the only ones doing it. Most people have some DL goin on somewhere.
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JazE
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Okkkaaaay!!!
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Post by JazE on Jun 26, 2005 10:37:09 GMT -5
I am definitely anxious about the rap session on Friday about the DL! It will be interesting as to what questions and experiences come up. The Down Low is real and its not only the guys doing it. Okkkkay!
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GAM
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Post by GAM on Jun 27, 2005 17:32:06 GMT -5
All these posts point to the fact that many women are not secure, confident and alright with being single. One has to be happily single before they can be happily coupled. Most women I come across dont just want love and companionship. They want a mother, father, jester, ATM card, residence and therapist. People in general need to at least start dealing with their issues before they step to a relationship.
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Post by tlc about you on Jun 27, 2005 18:37:32 GMT -5
Amen Ladies, PLEASE Please get your house in order, settle your own issues then we dont have to try and deal with them or try to save you from your self. And when we do try to deal dont shut us out. We only love you.You know that thing that hurts you so much or causes you so much pain. It is burning you up internally and causing you to do much distruction to your self, your family, your mate. You try to drink it away, smoke it away, snort it away, party it away, sex it away. Soon you are burnt up, burnt out and no good to anyone except the list of men and women who have "had" you. What a waste of a really good person....get some help, open up more than your mouth and legs and talk to somebody professionally.
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JazE
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Okkkaaaay!!!
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Post by JazE on Jun 28, 2005 10:09:43 GMT -5
I agree with GAM and TLC, there are some ladies looking like for someone they can get money out of, bring alot of baggage and deal with issues with by being destructive. Before getting in a relationship, one must become "relationship ready". In this process, you are getting to know yourself, taking care of self, learning to love self in all its flaws and uniqueness. You are ALWAYS going to have issues with jobs, family, friends, etc. but you have to build a tolerance to a point where it won't dissemble, destroy or interfere with your relationship with your lady or man.
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Post by twistedsista on Jun 28, 2005 20:28:38 GMT -5
I'm having a fresh shipment of sane working femmes trucked in for pride. That should solve all the problems. How about bringing some sexy studs??
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GAM
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Post by GAM on Jun 29, 2005 0:14:44 GMT -5
I'm already here. Too many studs running around these parts. I aim to have them shipped to other parts of the country. Plus, its not us that needs to be replaced.
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Post by MRS FEMME on Sept 24, 2005 13:48:33 GMT -5
I THINK THAT IS NOT THE DATING COMMUNITY ......THAT SUCK BUT THE WAY WOMEN TREAT EACH OTHER. I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU MEET SOMEONE I DON'T THINK THAT YOU SHOULD JUST HANG OUT AT THE CLUB. THIS LIFE IS ABOUT LOVING WOMEN AND NOT JUST THE LIFESTYLE. BEING IN THE GAY LIFE CAN BE A BEAUTIFUL THING ......BUT YOU MUST RSPECT YOURSELF AND TREAT OTHER LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TRAETED. I HAVE BEEN WITH MY SOUL-MATE FOR 5YRS AND WE HAVE A BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIP AND RELATIONSHIP. BUT IT BECAME THAT WAY BECAUDE WE STAY AWAY FROM ALL FORMS OF BULLnuts-AND -DRAMA. SO WHEN YOU HEAR THAT YOUR FRIENDS ARE CHEATER.....JUST ASK THEM IS ONE NIGHT OF f**kIN WORTH IT AND THEY WILL SAY NO. SO REMEMBER IT NOT THE DETROIT DATING SCENE IT IS THE INDIVIUAL THAT YOU DEAL WITH. THIS IS FROM A SISITA WHO IS IN-LOVE AND IF YOU WANT THAT GREAT MATE LOOK AND YOURSELF AND YOUR SURROUNDING.
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Post by MS FEMME on Sept 24, 2005 13:51:05 GMT -5
I THINK THAT IS NOT THE DATING COMMUNITY ......THAT SUCK BUT THE WAY WOMEN TREAT EACH OTHER. I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU MEET SOMEONE I DON'T THINK THAT YOU SHOULD JUST HANG OUT AT THE CLUB. THIS LIFE IS ABOUT LOVING WOMEN AND NOT JUST THE LIFESTYLE. BEING IN THE GAY LIFE CAN BE A BEAUTIFUL THING ......BUT YOU MUST RESPECT YOURSELF AND TREAT OTHER LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TREATED. I HAVE BEEN WITH MY SOUL-MATE FOR 5YRS AND WE HAVE A BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIP AND RELATIONSHIP. BUT IT BECAME THAT WAY BECAUDE WE STAY AWAY FROM ALL FORMS OF BULLnuts-AND -DRAMA. SO WHEN YOU HEAR THAT YOUR FRIENDS ARE CHEATER.....JUST ASK THEM IS ONE NIGHT OF f**kIN WORTH IT AND THEY WILL SAY NO. SO REMEMBER IT NOT THE DETROIT DATING SCENE IT IS THE INDIVIUAL THAT YOU DEAL WITH. THIS IS FROM A SISITA WHO IS IN-LOVE AND IF YOU WANT THAT GREAT MATE LOOK AND YOURSELF AND YOUR SURROUNDING.
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Post by fleababy on Sept 27, 2005 17:29:47 GMT -5
Hello Mrs femme, I have to agree with you and also congratulate you on five years with your mate, the reason some people are thinking that there are not any good dates or relationships out there is because they are perhaps looking in the wrong places, I just returned from a retreat with many women who were coupled for 3,5, 8, 14 years! Will I find them at the club every weekend probably not. It gets tired! I love dancing and music but when with my mate would prefer some good quiet quality time spent with other couples, or alone at home, a movie, museum, strolling in the park, out to dinner or a play. You never know where you might find someone often times when you are not even looking they are right in your face. Keep your eyes and your heart open ladies and be ready in your soul for what God has in store for you....
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Post by youngsophisticate on Dec 19, 2005 18:19:45 GMT -5
I find it hard to just date now and days. Some see me as my age and that im looking for a GOOD TIME. What is a good time? Standards are changing. My request for just friends are being ignored and quickly turning into "you dont know what you want out of life, because you just want to date. Im not ready to settle down with someone whom wants to sleep around. I just dont get the logic in that. I'm currently "dating" someone and have been for going on 2 years. Shes an older female whom just now understands (or tries too) the concept of simply dating. Shes stuck in the mindframe you dont want a relationship with me so you must not like me or the classic you dont know what you want out of life. *Im stuck in this headache society has made*
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Post by yogini on Apr 11, 2006 6:26:45 GMT -5
When I go out people see me and think that I'm either mean or shy. How can people get that from one glance? They judge me before even speaking to me. I admit, I do look serious often but that doesn't equate mean. I'm actually pretty friendly and silly once you get to know me. I like dating though. It's nice to meet many different people, and if you don't end up together at least you'll have made new friends.
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